2021.10.23 01:29 CoolOffBro Who would you ban from reddit and why?
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2021.10.23 01:29 Propaganda_Account Afghanistan's Sikhs to 'make choice between converting to Islam or leaving country': Report
2021.10.23 01:29 GiraffeAdvanced What episode is this from?
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2021.10.23 01:29 Kind_Primary_9298 Completely and utterly stuck, My (31m) gf (30f) NEVER wants to have sex, but insists it isn't me. I believe her, but what do I do?
So my gf and I have been together almost 5 years now. We met at a bar where I was performing an acoustic set and hit it off. There were many drunken nights where we ended up having sex but even in the very beginning there were issues though never with intimacy, I always felt we were at totally different points in our lives. She was only a year sober off heavy drugs (heroin) when we met, and living in a halfway house. I never judged her for this as my own mother was on drugs and turned her life around. Our relationship was rocky and on and off from the beginning. We weren't even technically together when she told me she was pregnant. Which was a total shock since she was supposed to be on BC but apparently missed a few days. I told her I didn't feel ready to be a dad, but she decided she wanted to keep it anyway. I always felt as if I was just a means to an end for her, almost like my opinion and myself as a partner just didn't matter to her. I felt as though I had no choice but to try to make it work. I knew that no matter what I wanted to be a part of my daughter's life and I would regret not giving it 100%. So I let her move into my house, where we still currently live. Early on in the pregnancy there were alot of trust issues, to be expected since we barely knew each other honestly. I also noticed that I was always the one initiating sex, which I assumed was bc she was pregnant and uncomfortable. Fast forward to when she had our daughter in 2018, I cried tears of joy when I held her for the first time. I've never experienced a love so intense and pure. I knew my life was changed from that moment forward. After that she had terrible post partum depression and had no interest in sex, which we were told was normal by every doctor we spoke to about it. I tried my best to be patient and understanding of the situation. One year turned into two and two turned into 3, my daughter will be 4 in 6 months or so. I can probably count on my hands the amount of times we had sex in the past 4 years. She's cycled through every excuse in the book it seems, I'm tired, not in the mood, not feeling well, I don't make her feel pretty, etc. She always insists that she is sexually attracted to me though. I've done everything in my power to try to make her "want me" compliments, vacations, family outings, asking what she likes sexually etc. Nothing has worked. I also have a fear of rejection so every time she turns me down it makes me feel awful. The past year or so I've been feeling more and more frustrated, angry and depressed about the situation. She always complains that I'm never happy anymore, and tbh I'm not, my needs haven't been met for YEARS. Essentially we've been doing foreplay to fulfill my needs (not even oral), barely even once a week if that. Which I'm thankful for but certainly doesn't make me feel loved or wanted sexually by her. Seems she just does it to shut me up about being sexually frustrated. I told her from day 1 when we decided to go on this journey together that physical intimacy and touch is how I feel love. I NEED to feel sexually wanted my partner, I was open and honest about that, and she agreed and told me that wouldn't be an issue. We've been going to couples therapy for almost a year now, and I've been in individual therapy for about 6 months. We tried separating for awhile which sent me into a depression bc I couldn't see my daughter as much, I was also splitting rent on that apartment as well as my old place during that time which was very financially straining. After discussing it we decided to give it another try and move back in together. I assumed she would be willing to put more effort into our intimacy, but absolutely nothing changed. Even small steps like sleeping in the same bed or making intimate time seemed extremely difficult for her. Eventually she told me that she had gone through sexual trauma in her past and was reliving it in therapy. This was news to me as she had never mentioned anything like that prior. It definitely made alot of sense though, and I deeply empathize with her situation. But at that point I realized, she may never want me in that way. She missed years of her life while on drugs and barely knew who she was as a person. She has been on this journey of self discovery and working through past issues for years now and in all honesty I'm SO proud of how far she's come. I just never felt like I was part of that journey. I had mentioned an open relationship to her a few times after that point as an option but she seemed very closed off to that. I finally hit a boiling point recently and told her that I felt her never wanting me and the constant rejection was starting to do real damage to my self esteem. That's when she finally agreed to give it a shot. At first I was optimistic but as time went on and I gave her the transparency she requested, it just seemed to drive us further apart. I was only chatting with girls on tinder and gave my number out at a recent event.. no sex with anyone or anything physical, even though I had that option. Nothing about it feels right. I still love her and my daughter more than anything. Part of me wants to just be single completely but I'm absolutely terrified of sinking into a deep depression from not being able to see my daughter every single day and losing my family unit. The other part of me says just keep the faith that someday our sex life will be healthy again. Although I have have no idea how long that would be if ever and I don't want to waste my youth (or what's left of it) waiting on something that may well never happen. I really need some advice. Has anyone been in a similar situation? I feel stuck and that no matter which decision I make I'll regret it. Please help!!
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2021.10.23 01:29 RLCD-Bot [Forest Green Dominus] [Forest Green Dominus: OR-AISE] [Forest Green Sparkles] [Forest Green Celestial II]
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2021.10.23 01:29 creedroyce Ilulu wakes you up
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2021.10.23 01:29 A-Stupid-Asshole Ppr drop one
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2021.10.23 01:29 Badro73 Frozen Orbit, 6 pieces
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2021.10.23 01:29 DanielQuiles It really sucks that GW only includes Ultramarine transfers with their models.
I get it, they're the poster boys but still, the prices for a transfer sheet from them are ridiculous. I'm making my own but theirs are so much nicer and thinner.
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2021.10.23 01:29 ZoolShop Elon Musk Says He Will Become First Dogecoin Trillionaire
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2021.10.23 01:29 coinmonks Understanding cryptocurrency: Everything a beginner needs to know
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2021.10.23 01:29 bullz1017 24m- let’s vibe on a Friday night!
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2021.10.23 01:29 Boblaire From 42 and 70lbs overweight to Masters World Champion at 71kg 45yo
2021.10.23 01:29 Dunlopfuzzy00 Will you buy an RTX 4000 series after buying RTX 3000 series ?
For those who bought an RTX 3000 series card, are you planning on getting an RTX 4000 series card? I got an RTX 3080, but am thinking of purchasing an RTX 4080 when I’m able to. Just curious on what other people are going to do especially those who recently got a 3000 gpu.
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2021.10.23 01:29 diffusionacademy [WTS] Universal Geneve White Shadow Automatic Ultra Slim | Inspired by Patek Philippe Golden Ellipse, Both Designed by Gérald Genta
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2021.10.23 01:29 coinmonks Bitcoin pulling back after setting new all-time highs, what’s next?
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2021.10.23 01:29 Dethscare Abandoned Hospital, The Oculus
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2021.10.23 01:29 hearteyefrog cruel to take a dog across country?
similarly crossposted on a dog training reddit
tldr; I have a retired service dog who is cattle dog mix. I'm torn between moving her across the country. she's old with a bad knee mad shouldn't do strenuous exercise.
with me; - dog park - keep up with her diet - dog friendly city - lives with her person
with family; - gets fat - poops out training - has big backyard with chickens - it's the house she grew up in
the long story my service dog, bean, had a ccl injury right before quarantine. and of course, pooped out a lot of her training not being in public for a while. after consulting a vet and the service dog community, I came to the conclusion to officiate retire her because working her on a bad knee is unethical (even though she loves her job) (there have also been mixed opinions on this)
we could play "service dog" since she likes working so much but by no means would I put her back in service if I take her. I definitely would keep up with obedience training though.
back home she has a big backyard with chickens. she plays a lot of frisbee (which technically she's not supposed to, she limps for a bit after every time. I'm not the one playing tho, blame family)
she's older, she naps a lot and technically shouldn't be doing strenuous activity. my dorm is actually small apartments. I have a full kitchen, a bedroom and bathroom and a living room. the room has 575 sq ft of room. I live in a dog friendly place, there's even a dog park not even a block away from me...
she misses me. my family at home days she depressed (unless she's playing frisbee... lol)
leave her there, without me? with her depressed? no one keeps up on her training there, and she's probably gained a decent amount of weight while I've been gone.
I miss her so much. I'm sure she misses me too. but is it cruel to rip her from her house and stuff her in an apartment?
(sorry if this post is a mess.. I'm really upset and torn ab this :( )
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2021.10.23 01:29 ForeverWilling Grey Day Tour 2021 - Minneapolis
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2021.10.23 01:29 ManiaforBeatles Gangbyeon Expressway heading towards Seoul seen from Haengju Fortress, Deokyang District, Goyang, Gyeonggi Province [1080×1350]
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